How to Handle Rejection

Rejection is an opportunity to invite in the man of your dreams

I remember when I used to make rejection mean something about me,

I thought it meant I wasn’t loveable, worthy or beautiful enough.

I used to run from any feeling associated with the thought of rejection.

I would close down, act cool or just pretend it never hurt.

When you have been rejected what have you done?

Do you feel like texting him, calling him or wanting to know if you did anything wrong and try to fix it?

I know this, I’ve been there…

I started to allow rejection in and make it mean nothing about him, me or the relationship…

I just allowed rejection to be there, part of the entire experience of dating…

I embraced the entirety of dating, the good stuff and the hurt that comes with it…

Because I knew when I did this, I was opening up space for my forever man to enter…

Rejection can help us remember to know our limits, our worth, desires, and needs…

It's an opportunity get to know yourself again and again..

If he comes back acting like he’s keen again use this is an opportunity to say what you need in relationships…

But don’t make it mean that you need him…

This way your being clear about your needs but your not making him your entire goal…

I realised that by allowing rejection in, I was changing direction…

I would ask questions like, what can I learn from this situation? Where can I put my focus instead of on him?

What do I value?

Instead of always feeling uncertain or urgent to text and call him, how do I want to feel instead?

So next time your faced in a situation where you are being ignored or rejected, see this as an opportunity for growth and a redirection to your highest vision for love…